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bluidkiti · 06-06-2022, 12:10 PM

June 6

Quote of the Week

"We may be powerless, but we’re not helpless."

Accepting that I was powerless over people, places, and things was a concept I rebelled against on almost every level in the beginning. Before recovery, I was driven by the belief that not only could I control others (especially those I loved and cared for), but it was my duty to do so. Despite the fact that it rarely worked, I stubbornly persisted, frustrating myself and irritating and alienating those I was trying to control—err, I mean, help.

When I entered another Twelve Step program for this, I was told that the reason I had been unable to influence, help, or control another was because I was in fact powerless over other people, places, and things. If that’s true, then there is absolutely no hope for this situation! I thought. Accepting this was contrary to everything I believed, and it meant complete defeat. What was I to do?

By working this wonderful and much needed program, I soon learned that surrendering to this powerlessness was actually the gateway to a new freedom. Once the untenable burden of controlling or fixing others was lifted, I was suddenly free to invest my energy where I did have some power and influence—over my own life. And that is when I realized I was no longer helpless to fix my situation and my life. Today, I understand and truly appreciate that I may be powerless, but I’m not helpless to make things better.

06-06-2022, 12:10 PM	#23
bluidkiti Administrator Join Date: Aug 2013 Posts: 75,890	June 6 Quote of the Week "We may be powerless, but we’re not helpless." Accepting that I was powerless over people, places, and things was a concept I rebelled against on almost every level in the beginning. Before recovery, I was driven by the belief that not only could I control others (especially those I loved and cared for), but it was my duty to do so. Despite the fact that it rarely worked, I stubbornly persisted, frustrating myself and irritating and alienating those I was trying to control—err, I mean, help. When I entered another Twelve Step program for this, I was told that the reason I had been unable to influence, help, or control another was because I was in fact powerless over other people, places, and things. If that’s true, then there is absolutely no hope for this situation! I thought. Accepting this was contrary to everything I believed, and it meant complete defeat. What was I to do? By working this wonderful and much needed program, I soon learned that surrendering to this powerlessness was actually the gateway to a new freedom. Once the untenable burden of controlling or fixing others was lifted, I was suddenly free to invest my energy where I did have some power and influence—over my own life. And that is when I realized I was no longer helpless to fix my situation and my life. Today, I understand and truly appreciate that I may be powerless, but I’m not helpless to make things better. __________________ "No matter what you have done up to this moment, you get 24 brand-new hours to spend every single day." --Brian Tracy AA gives us an opportunity to recreate ourselves, with God's help, one day at a time. --Rufus K. When you get to the end of your rope, tie a knot and hang on. --Franklin D. Roosevelt We stay sober and clean together - one day at a time! God says that each of us is worth loving.